Les and Gary on holiday

Les’ story

December 2024

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The aim was to get me pain-free, so I could live as normal life as possible, for as long as possible…

‘I love to travel, my partner Gary and I have travelled all over the world. In fact, I love travelling so much I made a career out of it! My favourite place to visit was the Caribbean. The sand….it was just a magical place.’

This is Les. Les was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2023. His biggest regret: not going to the doctor sooner. When his partner, Gary finally persuaded him to go to his GP the cancer had spread, and his treatment focussed on managing it rather than saving his life.

This is where Prospect Hospice came in. Les’ GP recommended talking to Prospect Hospice about pain management and next steps.  Mel Buckley from the charity’s community team became Les’ go-to or as he calls her ‘the lovely Mel’.

‘From the start, Mel was completely honest with me. She took time to explain everything, and her plan was to get me pain-free so I could live as normal a life as possible for as long as possible.

Les and friend 😉

And the Prospect did that. After that she kept in touch, calling me asking me how I was feeling and reassuring me when I wasn’t mentally in a good pace.

Coming to the hospice was a really weird experience. Of course, I knew there were hospices, but I didn’t realise what they did or about the care they offer. They do so much more than you realise. I would never have thought about contacting Prospect if my GP hadn’t done it for me.

Everyone at Prospect Hospice has done such a great job, and they’re just not recognised for the amazing job they do. The atmosphere here is so calm, so reassuring. I don’t feel scared. The feeling of coming here was, that we’ll do whatever we can for you, and I felt that from day one.

Cancer is such a horrible, horrible disease, not just for the person with the disease but for all their loved ones too and we need to recognise that places like the Prospect Hospice are invaluable. They’ve made me feel comfortable, so welcome, secure. I could go on and on forever, but in a nutshell…Thank you.’

Les and Gary in Venice

 

 

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